It’s world mental health day!
I have not published a word on here since this exact day last year, but it seems to be the perfect time to start again.
Mental health is so important, especially in the current climate - there should be a mental health week. Or a month. WE NEED MORE THAN A DAY! But I’m glad there's at least this day, and thus the awareness only grows.
It’s also a good day for a few important reminders:
Mental health is just as important as physical health. So many of us pay attention to our physical wellbeing, but not enough of us give our mental health the importance it needs.
Stop assuming that people with a mental disorder can ‘get over it’ or ‘just think positive’
It’s just therapy guys. No one shames anyone for seeking medical help for a physical problem - it should be the same for seeking mental health help. You’re not “off your rocker” or “absolutely crazy” for going to therapy. Everyone (ESPECIALLY NOW!!) needs therapy. Try it!
Learn about empathy. PLEASE. Saying you’re sorry, or that you feel bad for someone for being depressed does nothing for them. A kinder approach is creating the capacity to try and understand how they feel. A little empathy goes a long way. You can be the happiest person on this planet, and still, try & empathize with someone who struggles.
Just because someone does not look depressed/anxious all the time doesn’t mean they don't struggle with it. Sometimes it's not a constant, sometimes it phases. And many times - it’s just an effort to be happy around people they love because they don't want to be a burden.
t’s just MEDICATION. If you’re going to take a Panadol for a headache, it’s okay if someone takes an antidepressant for depression. Don't ask them 500 questions about it, and don’t make it a thing they need to be ashamed of.
Stop shaming men for being vulnerable and seeking help. Stop asking women to have patience, endure or tolerate the life they have.
And of course - the most obvious one - STOP the stigma. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having a mental disorder (ugh, that word though) and absolutely nothing wrong with seeking help. Just because you can’t see it, doesn’t mean it’s not there. Uncomfortable conversations can save lives, so create safe spaces, have open minds, and drop the judgements.
Ok Ok - thanks for coming to my Ted talk!